I am beginning to understand the appeal. I mean, it can be a pretty cool place. You sign on, fill in some of your likes and dislikes. Of course, that can give you a headache trying to read all the flashing questionaires. I’m not so in to them. But, I like the simplicity.
I like that I can sign on to this webpage and see a picture of all my friends. Or a logo for them. And I see this big flashing number that says you have this many friends! Well, that’s kinda cool. For an introvert like me, I tend to forget other people like me. Sometimes. When I’m not blocking out the world and they feel ignored.
Tough stuff this friendship business. My husband takes me to a friend’s one night so I can feel “included”. Might have something to do with that hour I cried on his shoulder because I’d missed out on an important gathering of friend couples because I’d mistakenly thought it was a guys’ night and I was suddenly feeling how lonely I was. So the next weekend, we go to our friend’s and as they’re talking to me, I completely block all of them out because Spiderman 2 is on TV and I’d forgotten how it ended and I was analyzing the romance.
Wow. I’m good. So, I see the apeal. Sign on, there’s your list of friends, there’s pictures to see and share, there’s the easy email feature and the bulletin board and the comments…
As a parent, I’m probably a sell out. I think it’s cool. But you know what kids? Honest truth here. Be honest with your parents about your account, don’t set yourself up for internet predators and your parent’s may decide it’s pretty cool, too.